Unexpected
Présentation
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Honestly, I thought I’ve been doing pretty well since LC and I broke up. Other areas of my life are moving forward at warp speed and I’ve been content. Perhaps even happy. LC and I even managed to keep talking and being friends. We even hung out once! I am a break up model of perfection. Or so I thought.
Internally I felt like I had a handle on it too. I am comfortable with breaking up with him. When I think over what happened, I know that I made the right choice for me. Any other choice would not have served me as well. This may sound like a load of BS, but I mean it. I’m at peace with my decision.
So no one was more surprised than me when I started yelling at him in IMs a few days ago. Ooops. Apparently even though I’m at peace with my decision, I’m not at peace with him. It would seem there are some loose ends that left me kind of angry. Which I realized at the exact moment that I told him so.
LC had no idea I had ever been angry about any of the things I mentioned. Which in turn made me madder because they are all things I’ve said before. Go ahead and snicker. You can already see how the whole thing escalated.
This, my friends, is why I like to practice DTM. With DTM I can have imaginary arguments with him in my head. With DTM I can write angry letters I never send. And with DTM I don’t have to look him in the eye, make nice, and get even angrier because he doesn’t know and doesn’t care about what hurt me. DTM gives me the space to work it out without getting any angrier.
And so it is that LC and I have stopped communicating. Is it a permanent ban on our friendship? I don’t know. But apparently it’s going to last until I’m good and done with it. Because the other way really just wasn’t working out so well.
At least I got my stuff out of his apartment before this happened.
Should You Have a Marriage Mission Statement?
25 Things You Must Include on Your Marriage Bucket List
How Expectations in Marriage Can Help or Hurt You
6 Ways to Deal When Your Husband Doesn't Appreciate You
How Training for a 5K is Just Like Marriage
How Do I Avoid a Relationship Shutdown?
What Makes a Courageous Husband and Father?
That Type of Behavior is Going to Make Him Think You Are Crazy!
Marrying the "Bad Boy" Might Just Be a Good Thing
Why Wait for the Bad Times? Get Couples Therapy Now!
7 Habits Which Create an Unbreakable Marriage
Behind a Stale Marriage: Why He Has Turned Cold
Honestly, I thought I’ve been doing pretty well since LC and I broke up. Other areas of my life are moving forward at warp speed and I’ve been content. Perhaps even happy. LC and I even managed to keep talking and being friends. We even hung out once! I am a break up model of perfection. Or so I thought.
Internally I felt like I had a handle on it too. I am comfortable with breaking up with him. When I think over what happened, I know that I made the right choice for me. Any other choice would not have served me as well. This may sound like a load of BS, but I mean it. I’m at peace with my decision.
So no one was more surprised than me when I started yelling at him in IMs a few days ago. Ooops. Apparently even though I’m at peace with my decision, I’m not at peace with him. It would seem there are some loose ends that left me kind of angry. Which I realized at the exact moment that I told him so.
LC had no idea I had ever been angry about any of the things I mentioned. Which in turn made me madder because they are all things I’ve said before. Go ahead and snicker. You can already see how the whole thing escalated.
This, my friends, is why I like to practice DTM. With DTM I can have imaginary arguments with him in my head. With DTM I can write angry letters I never send. And with DTM I don’t have to look him in the eye, make nice, and get even angrier because he doesn’t know and doesn’t care about what hurt me. DTM gives me the space to work it out without getting any angrier.
And so it is that LC and I have stopped communicating. Is it a permanent ban on our friendship? I don’t know. But apparently it’s going to last until I’m good and done with it. Because the other way really just wasn’t working out so well.
At least I got my stuff out of his apartment before this happened.
Date de l'évènement
26.05.2023
Date de l'évènement
27.05.2023